It's time to say GoodBye !!!

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I always hated Goodbyes. This is the most painful thing for me to handle. When after spending so much time together, one person has to leave the other person, then this moment of goodbye is the most heart breaking moment to experience. It might not be for you but it’s for me, for sure. Life is very unpredictable, you never know when you say someone goodbye will you ever be able to see that person again or not. This hurting feeling is not about that I am going to miss that person’s presence that is leaving, it’s just that the wonderful moments we have shared might never occur again in this lifetime. Those memories will remain memories and those moments are gone forever. Well, that’s the tragedy of life that it has to move on and every person sooner or later has to leave and has to go in his or her path of life. Anyways, with the departure of every person from our lives there is always an arrival of next person, that’s what I believe. And may be the people who left just made a room for a new person in our lives, so that new memories could be made. I always like to get surrounded by people who are near to me or who are dear to me; People with whom I have spent some amazing part of life. But… yeah but again… everyone is so scattered in this world and busy with his or her lives that it will remain a dream. I always try to remain connected with these people, since I have spent an incredible part of my life with them and I just don't want to lose it; There is a wonderful quote that comes into my mind now. “Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”

I always believed that saying Goodbye is never painful unless you are going to say Hello again. As if you are going to meet that person again then there is hope those amazing moments will come back. And this goodbye is just needed so that the other person can come back again sooner. May be no distance is too great to separate apart two people.

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serenity said…
What i like abt ur blog posts is that u write abt simple things.....which r so profound :)
Wednesday, November 21, 2012 5:06:00 PM
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