Thursday, June 13, 2013

Khanabadosh...

Another new chapter in my life started four months ago. I have relocated to Sydney and started a new job. This relocation was very exhausting. There were a lot of things that I had to take care of and look after during this relocation. It all started with a job offer I got from a renowned company in Sydney. The job seemed good; I was happy with the money, and the role also looked promising. After little thought, I decided to accept the offer and I resigned from my Brisbane job. This triggered a long to-do list. I had to leave my apartment in Brisbane in the same condition as it was when I leased it, with literally no spots on the wall or on the floor. Then I have to arrange for a removalist to move my stuff from Brisbane to Sydney and put it in storage till I find a new place in Sydney. So, completing all the pending work at my current job, searching for cleaners who could make a good exit, cleaning my apartment, finding a reasonable removalist company along with storage, looking for a new apartment in Sydney, booking tickets to Sydney and arranging a hotel stay for some initial days were some of the main tasks that I had to do. When I found the cleaner and removalist, they came with a little added drama. The cleaner had his appointment list full and had his own work timings; the removalists had a different day to pick up stuff from my apartment, which was again different from the end date of my apartment lease; and my last working day at the office was a totally different day. Having to synchronise tasks and manage timing for all these activities consumed a lot of my brain power, and I had to arrange a stay in a hotel in Brisbane additionally. However, all the tasks were done completely and in the way I wanted, and I prepared to say good bye to Brisbane. On the final day, 2 hours before the flight, I booked the flight tickets, and during the flight takeoff, I booked a hotel in Sydney. When I arrived in Sydney, I submitted an application for an apartment, which was approved, and after a week, I shifted there. The new job seemed to be fine. My new apartment was not as stylish as my previous one was, but it was still the best option I had at that moment. It took me some weeks to settle down in the new suburb. I already had some acquaintances in that suburb. Therefore, it was a relief to me that at least my social life here in Sydney would be better than in Brisbane. My new apartment was bigger than the previous one, so I had to buy a lot of new furniture for it. After settling down, the next big thing was to get a driving license. Unfortunately, a Pakistani licence cannot be converted into an Australian licence directly. One has to pass a written and practical driving test first. Driving in Sydney is very different from Lahore. There are a lot of rules and signs to follow. The law is strict and people do follow it. A practical driving test is a nightmare. They won’t let you pass it easily on the first attempt. You have to be very careful during a test. One small mistake and you fail. I had been driving in Pakistan for many years, but the practical test troubled me a lot. I had to take classes from driving instructors and failed the test twice. Finally, after some effort and spending lots of money, I passed the test. The next thing was to buy a car. There are so many choices here in Sydney as compared to Pakistan. But luckily, things here are straight-forward, and there are seldom any chances of dealers lying about the history of cars. You can also search for the details of a second-hand car on the internet before you buy it. After buying a car, the next best thing that happened was the birth of my second child. My daughter, Mysha.

It’s been four months since I moved to Sydney, but it seems like a really long time. I have finally decided now to stay in Sydney as long as I am in Australia. I don’t want to experience relocation again now. I am done with them. In Sha Allah, the only relocation I am looking forward to now is the one when I will relocate back to Lahore permanently.

Thursday, January 10, 2013

2012: A year in review – My Challenges

Here goes 2012. Apparently, the apocalypse didn't happen this year. But my personal life did face some tremors and I am still feeling their after-shocks. 2012 started with a bang. In December 2011, I resigned from Telenor and decided to relocate to Australia with my family. So at the start of January, I wrapped up everything from Islamabad and moved back to Lahore. Islamabad is a beautiful and nice city. But personally, I would still prefer Lahore over it at any cost. Anyway, on January 24th, I flew to Australia along with my wife and son. The initial few weeks were very exhausting for me mentally; settling up in a new country; looking for a place to live; buying household stuff; getting familiar with the new environment and system; and starting a whole new job and company. Apart from all this, the very fact that I didn't have any acquaintances or friends in the new city to help me out, so to make myself accustomed to everything was the biggest challenge of my life. Luckily, by the grace of Allah, I didn't face much difficulty. Thanks to an office assignment, I got a chance to live in Sydney in April or May. During that time, I came to know that my mother was suffering from Hepatitis C. Apart from that, I have faced an awful personal experience in my life. The whole month of June and afterwards became very tough for me emotionally. I got homesick and, at times, regretted coming to Australia. It took me a few months to find ample peace to live with it. I visited Pakistan in October and there I almost forgot that I had not been living there for the past 9 months. After coming back, I went back again to that old feeling, but after a few weeks, I again found peace. As I said, I could still feel the after-shocks at times.

Overall, it was a challenging year for me and my family. It was an emotionally very tough year for me, and it was my fault that I let my emotions drive me. This year tested me on many personal grounds. In spite of all those tests, I am still here, steadfast and rock steady. I guess now I should now wait for the rewards of those tests.

The previous year has also made me realise how blessed I am by Allah for having such a fortunate family and friends.

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