- You always grow in difficult times. Your life may change, it may never be the same, but you learn more about yourself than at any other time in your life.
- If you think Adventure is Dangerous, try Routine. It is Lethal.
- The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.
- Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid - Albert Einstein.
- There are many aspects to success; material wealth is only one component. But success also includes good health, energy and enthusiasm for life, fulfilling relationships, creative freedom, emotional and psychological stability, a sense of well-being, and peace of mind.
- I do my thing and you do yours. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine.
- Aik Baat Zindagi Bhar Yaad Rakhna, Kisi Ko Dhoka Na Dena, Dhoke Mein Bari Jaan Hoti Hai. Ye Kabhi Marta Nahi Ghoom Phir Kar Aik Din Waapis Aap k Paas He Pohanch Jata Hai Kyon K Is Ko Apne Thikaane Se Bohat Muhabbat Hoti Hai - Ashfaq Ahmed.
- Every search begins with beginner's luck. And every search ends with the victor's being severely tested.
- If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader - John Quincy Adams.
- Mein haara nahi sirf kuch thak sa gaya hoon.
- When everything's coming your way, you're certainly in the wrong lane.
- I don't believe in coincidence. These days, I believe in miracles.
- Life looks like a mass of dots; all jumbled and disconnected; none of it actually makes any sense. But I like to think that, from God's perspective, life, everything, even this make sense. It's not just dots. Instead we're all connected.
- Every person has to live his own life. Comparing and competing your life and materials with others can never give you content. You yourself have to make yourself content with what you have. If you are not contented with what you, then you are not living your own life. You are living the life of others.
- Can I say something? Um, I'm the type of person that if you ask me a question and I don't know the answer, I'm gonna tell you that I don't know. But I bet you what, I know how to find the answer and I will find the answer.
- People often say that motivation does not last. Well, neither does bathing that’s why we recommend it daily - Zig Ziglar.
- Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path, and leave a trail - Ralph waldo Emerson.
- Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.
- Never deprive anyone of hope; it may be all they have.
- When you go after what is important for you in life, don't take no for an answer.
- Happiness is something that comes into our lives through doors we don't even remember leaving open.
- Reason is afraid of defeat, but Intuition enjoys challenges.
- All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream.
- One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
- Not all those who wander are lost.
- Be proud of your scars. They remind you that you have the will to live.
- We are living in dark ages where there is no respect for one's life and dignity. The only respectable are the ones with money and power. There are corrupt rulers but no leaders. People have no courage to rise against barbarism. Nature is angry and we have earth quakes and floods. The only road that is ahead is the road of utmost deterioration.
- Fight for your dreams, and your dreams will fight for you.
- The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.
- Everyone on earth has a treasure that awaits him.
- Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step - Martin Luther King jr.
- After we've lost everything, we're free to do anything.
- Every day God gives us the sun plus also one moment in which we have the ability to change everything that makes us unhappy.
- Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
- At first dreams seem impossible, then improbable, then inevitable.
- Success is a reflection of yourself in others eyes; It does not belong to you.
- Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to this 10%.
- You should not confuse your career with your life, because if you have a career that probably means you have no life.
- Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired signifies, in the final sense, a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and not clothed.
- Nature never did betray the heart that loved her.
- In order to grow, you must learn to let go and strive toward something greater.
- The sun which shines on the elephant also shines on the dog. Nature does not discriminate. We humans do.
- If you are not proud of what you love, then you do not live a life.
- Forgive the enemy but kill the traitor.
- People will forget what you said; People will forget what you did; but people will never forget how you made them feel.
- In life we go straight and turn right.
- Islam is the religion of peace; then why the moulvi in masjid always pray for the destruction of our enemies. Why don’t they pray that we have peace with them and they become friends with us?
- Rituals are important. Some sort of ceremony to mark the end of one chapter, otherwise the self rages within, in distress of unfinished business.
- The Fallen shall rise again.
- Sooner or later there is always the Payback time.
This is a story about the laughter of adolescence; snuffles of solitude; joys of togetherness; and the innocence of affection. Some hopes, few wishes, and various dreams blend with the essence of my thoughts and embellished with the taste of my views.
Monday, October 17, 2011
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Friday, October 14, 2011
Winds of Change
The best and worst thing about life is that it keeps on changing. It is very true in my case. The last few changes in my life have been so erratic that I have lost my life in between them. My personal life has been a bit rough for the past 15 months since I left my home town. Setting up a new home in a new city twice with my family and managing all the stuff related to daily house life on my own were not easy tasks for me to do in the first instance. Including this with the financial hardships which I had to come across during this segment was very frustrating. And the wonderful people I came across during this phase were "sonay pe suhaga". I wasn't able to attend my friends' weddings. I was absent from family gatherings. My sister came from the UK, and I couldn't spend enough time with her. My parents, siblings, and relatives miss us, especially my nephew. I had to leave my health club.
In some parts of my heart, there is a regret that I shouldn't have said yes to this change. My life would have been the same as it was before. Even though it might be a little bit rough then, it would still be more carefree and enjoyable. I would be close to my parents, siblings, friends, and my city. But anyway, it seems like it might not be possible for me now to go back.
I know one thing for sure; I won’t be able to live like this for long. A new change is already knocking on the door, but I am reluctant to open this door. There are ifs and buts which are occupying my mind and are not letting me open it. My confidence in adapting to new changes has been a bit shaken. The change that is coming is again a life-changing change, and this time it will affect the lives of me and my family more severely than the previous change.
Even though it’s been a rough ride till now, I believe that I have and will be able to manage to achieve equal or more than that from these rough times.
Recently, I read a quote which made me think positively about changes. It says:
"You always grow in difficult times. Your life may change, it may never be the same, but you will learn more about yourself than at any other time in your life. "
I read this after many years and the last few sentences made me relate to the Interstellar scene when Cooper says to his past self to not go. He tries to make him stay. So many years have passed and when I look back, I want my past self to stay.
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